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If you say you haven't, you're a prude. If you say you have, you're a slut. It's a trap. So spoke Ally Sheedy's character in "The Breakfast Club" on a topic that inspires continued fascination: virginity, the v-card every woman is supposed to hold onto at the time in her life when she is often obsessed with turning it in. Virginity is a tricky concept.

Thanks to thee unrealistic standards constantly portrayed in media , we've all built up this imaginary idea of what sex is supposed to be like. Some people expect a romantic night of candles and passion, while others think it will be the most pleasure they've ever felt in their whole life. But the truth is, everyone's experience is different. Sometimes it's smooth and romantic and lives up to your expectations, while other times, it's kind of terrible. But no matter how old you are or what the circumstances are, having sex for the first time can feel like a huge deal!

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. As a result, having sex for the first time becomes a major milestone for many, and the memories of those often awkward, sometimes painful , occasionally funny moments tend to stay with us.

The reasons for this are varied, ranging from not feeling like they had control of the decision to not knowing whether their partner had had sex previously. Relationship is probably too strong a word but we knew each other. It was a Sunday.